“O, O, O! Discovering that Perfect Orgasm!”
Ladies, close your eyes and picture this….The lights are out, soft candle light flickers on the walls, and you and your partner are steaming up the windows of your bedroom. As he brings you closer and closer to the
point of no return, suddenly you have the urge to urinate. The moment is ruined and once again, no orgasm. Little did you know, you were about to experience an orgasm known as the g-spot orgasm.
As you leave the room to use the bathroom, suddenly the urge is gone. This night has been great, you are thinking. Your partner is frustrated, you are frustrated, and you still did not have that wonderful orgasm that you dream about. The problem may be you are not having that wonderful orgasm because you do not know HOW to have that orgasm. Many women are not aware of this, but there are actually 3 different types of orgasm that can be achieved through touching, and oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse. The three types of orgasms are clitoral, g-spot, and a combination of both.
The first type of orgasm is probably the easiest to achieve. This is the clitoral orgasm. This is the most common of the three. A clitoral orgasm is achieved by stimulation to the clitoral area. This can include touching, rubbing and licking. It can also be reached by using a toy known as a “Silver Bullet.” A silver bullet is a clitoral vibrator that provides extra clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse or self-pleasuring. For women who have a problem reaching orgasm from intercourse alone, this gives that extra stimulation needed. Other types of bullets include: the Seventh Heaven, the Micro-Bullet, and the Waterproof Power Bullet.
A g-spot orgasm is harder to achieve. One main reason for this is due to the fact that many women do not know where their g-spot is located. A g-spot is located on the inner front wall of the vagina. A simple way to find a g-spot is for the woman to stand with her legs apart and insert a finger inside the vagina using a “come here” motion. The g-spot is located about two inches inside. The outer surface feels like the outside of a walnut shell. When it is aroused, it swells up. By applying pressure to the g-spot, an orgasm can be achieved. Your partner can also experiment with this. When laying down, have your partner insert a finger and perform the same come here motion. You can vary the speed and pressure to find what works for you. When you have that urge to urinate, (like mentioned earlier), fight past that urge. This is actually your g-spot being stimulated. You will not urinate. It is impossible to urinate while the g-spot is aroused. Once you discover how to have a g-spot orgasm, you will wonder what took you so long to read this information! Some toys to experiment with g-spot pleasure are the Wireless Thumbs Up, G-Wiz, and my personal favorite, Cowboy Up. These are all vibrators aimed specifically at the g-spot to help with arousal. They all have clitoral stimulators as well.
The final type of orgasm to have is a dual action orgasm, or combination of both. This can happen with foreplay or intercourse. It occurs when both the clitoral region and g-spot are stimulated at the same time. Both partners can do this manually or orally. Toys can also be used to achieve this type of orgasm. Toys recommended for this are Daddy From the Nati, the Honey Dipper, Bling Bling, and T.O.M. These toys contain different sized shafts, along with ball bearings, and several different speeds and clitoral stimulators.
Whenever participating in a sexual act, always remember a lubricant should be used and a toy cleaner for proper care of your toy. Both participants should be comfortable with whatever act is being performed and it is always important to keep open communication. Good luck on your quest for achieving the big “O”!
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Colleen
This was a great article! I can’t wait to keep reading! Thanks for the advice!
December 24th, 2008 at 1:10 amTeresa
Very nice article! There is information that I had no idea about! Thanks a bunch. I will try this with my hubby tonight!
December 24th, 2008 at 1:13 amEve
it was a great artical to read about things inever herd before bout have had sex
December 25th, 2008 at 2:49 amMark
Good article- i liked reading it….every couple should try to find the g-spot.
December 26th, 2008 at 8:56 pmEric
Thanks for the tip. I can’t wait to get on top of her again.
December 31st, 2008 at 7:49 amadmin
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Thanks Teresa! I hope the night went well!
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March 8th, 2009 at 1:26 amThanks for the comments. Keep checking back.
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March 8th, 2009 at 1:27 amI hope you find the article useful. Keep checking back for more great tips!
Jenn
Good article, but with one caveat. It’s not true that it is impossible to urinate while the g-spot is stimulated. It is actually totally possible to urinate. I recommend going to the bathroom right before sex, so that this isn’t as much of a risk. I’ve been lucky enough to experience all three kinds of orgasms…keep experimenting ladies!
March 25th, 2009 at 6:08 amKimmy
Perhaps I was misunderstood in my article. If you have urinated previous to sexual intercourse, and then, feel the urge to urinate, it is not that. Your g-spot is aroused, and it is medically proven you cannot urinate during a gspot/arousal or orgasm. If any fluid comes out, it is actually considered female ejaculation. Beign a romance educator, as well as Sex and Relationship Therapist, I have incredible amounts of info on this and I can provide you with some sources on this if you would like to read up! Thanks for reading!
March 25th, 2009 at 5:42 pmStef
Ummm….I’ve found my g-spot many times and my fiance and I have spent HOURS trying to achieve a g-spot orgasm but no one mentions how to let go or ignore that feeling to urinate.
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:58 pmsandless
THANK YOU! I was so bothered by ‘main stream’ media’s claims of ‘g-spot doesn’t exist’ BS all over the news a few weeks ago! I KNOW I have one! To make even one woman who hasn’t found hers yet to think she might not have one was heart breaking to me! I call my C’s the little ‘o’s. My G’s are the ‘riding the wave” O’s, and when you get the whole Vaginal/Uterine Muscle going too it’s the Big O- when you’ve lit all the lights in one session it’s like winning a free game on the pinball machine! No one wants to tilt on the way! Any Lady who hasn’t gotten here needs to find the way on her own first, or with a very patient partner whose willing to wait and hurry up, and hurry up and wait. Finding your way around your body is a journey in itself, take your time, listen to others but remember, your body is different, the road map will not be the same as his last girlfriend (or yours!) Try some new, if it doesn’t hurt it’s worth trying!
January 25th, 2010 at 8:41 pmadmin
Thanks for the comment! I’m glad you enjoyed reading the article. Any info you can share with others of how to find that spot? I’m sure readers want to know!
January 25th, 2010 at 9:30 pm