Long Lasting Relationship Secrets

Women can seem complicated, especially when you begin a relationship. You want to impress her, but you’re never really sure what she’s thinking or feeling. There are a few solid tips that you can follow to be certain that you’re on the right path.  Follow this advice to have a woman wanting you.

1. Confidence, confidence, confidence. Most women want a man who is assertive and has a high self-esteem. They want someone who knows what they want, has a stable life, and can take charge when needed.

If you don’t have confidence in yourself, she’ll notice. The key is to know yourself, your strengths, and your weaknesses. Play up your strengths and try to improve your weaknesses. Your dating success will greatly improve with an increase in your level of confidence.

1. If confidence is the first thing you should focus on, humor is the second. Make her laugh and she’ll be more attracted to you. Most women list humor in their top five qualities that they want in a man. Impress her by telling her a funny story or making lighthearted comments during your dates.

1. Make her a priority. If you have attractive female coworkers and friends, you should always make it clear that she’s the priority when they are around. Introduce her to your female friends and coworkers. Don’t try to hide them. When you introduce your girlfriend, use positive language and compliment her. For example, “Tanya, this is my beautiful girlfriend, Cara, that I keep telling you about.”

When you’re together, she should feel like the most important woman in the room. Be attentive and she’ll be grateful and become hooked on you. This could also help you in the future, because this may reduce her feelings of jealousy.

1. Do something special. Every woman has been on dates that include dinner and a movie. Plan something unique that you think she’ll like. Here are some ideas:

·         If she likes to cook, sign up for a cooking class together.

·         Take her on a picnic. This is romantic and thoughtful. Even if she’s already been on a picnic date, she’ll be impressed, especially if it’s a surprise.

·         Cook her dinner. Everyone likes to have a meal cooked for them. She’ll appreciate the time you took to prepare dinner. Increase the romance by lighting some candles and getting a dozen roses for the centerpiece.

·         Get a couples massage. Tell her that you think she deserves something special to relax after a hard week of work and go to the local spa.

·         Attend a wine tasting. Learn about different wines while spending time together.

1. Let her know that you’re thinking about her. When you’re dating you usually don’t see each other everyday. Show her that you think about her during the week by sending her an e-mail, flowers at work, or call to say hello. This can become overkill and smothering if you do it too much but once a week is flattering. Her friends will be jealous.

1. Call when you say you’re going to call. Don’t play games by telling a woman that you’re going to call her on Friday and wait to call her on Sunday. This will show her early in the relationship that you’re not ready for anything serious (which you might not be) and that you don’t really care. If you’re not going to call for a few days, don’t tell her that you will. Women expect you to follow through on your commitments.

1. Continue to put yourself first. Don’t stop doing things that make you happy. Don’t stop playing football with the guys on Sunday afternoons. You’re more attractive if you have interests, friends, and a life outside of your relationship.

1. Stay mysterious. It’s exciting to be in a secure relationship when you don’t know what the person will do next. Surprise her with a fun date. Call her randomly to say hello. You don’t have to tell the person you’re dating everything about yourself, and you probably shouldn’t. Keep the mystery alive and your woman will stay tuned for your next move.

1. Don’t let the romance die. Many times in relationships routines take over and the romance is no longer a priority. Make an effort to kiss her for ten extra seconds every time you see her. Cuddle up during movie dates. You’ll be rewarded in the long-run.

These nine tips are certain to impress your date or girlfriend. Get her hooked and improve your relationship by implementing them on a regular basis.

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