Are You Having Enough Sex?

How much sex is enough? Are you having enough sex in your life?

For some reason, guys always think they aren’t getting enough sex. It doesn’t matter if they are single or in a relationship, it seems they want more and more sex. They crave it. They think about it all day long. It’s like their animal instinct takes over, and they want it all the time.

For women, it seems different. It’s not that they don’t want sex, because they do. They just seem to appreciate the intimacy of making love rather than the wham bam thank you mam variety.

Women actually crave sex as much as men.

Here is the secret to more sex…..

If you’re a man, learn to respect and appreciate your woman. Do the little things for her to make her life easier. Don’t do things because you expect o get laid. Do them because you love your woman.

If you can dedicate some time to showing you love her, she will be attacking you for sex every chance she gets. You will learn to appreciate her more and more, and she will appreciate the things you do.

The thing is, many woman are tired from everyday life. It’s not like it used to be, where they stay home while the man works. Today, they care for the home, the husband, the children, and they hold a job. That’s a lot for anyone to handle, so cut them some slack when they say they’re too tired for sex.

Back to the main question, how much sex is enough?

Honestly, for me, it’s never enough. There is no real answer. I love having sex with my significant other all the time. I love it when she surprises me and just takes me over. I love getting random blow jobs. I love sex in the shower. I love spontaneous outdoor sex.

I love surprising her when she gets home from work and just taking her over. Of course, she loves all these things too.

I’d hate to put a number on how much sex is enough. When you truly love someone, there is no number. You share you feelings with one another and sex is never a pre-thought. It is a responsive action brought on by your emotion.

I feel sorry for those of you who only get laid on a monthly schedule. Planned sex is the worst, but I hear it all the time about how “we only have sex once a month”, or “we only make love on Thursdays”.

How do you “make love on Thursdays”? If it is already planned, how much feeling and emotion is involved. This is not making love, this is a scheduled routine. Break this habit immediately!

I will say there are times we go days without having sex or making love. But it is never really a thought. Because when we do, we are both very passionate about each other and it is amazing!

So are you having enough sex? I know I get all that I bargain for.

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April 2nd, 2009

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2 Comments

Nat

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What the heck is a blow job,intimacy,love making ????
Were currently sexless. My wife and I have been married 43 years and about 26 years without sex or intimacy and without any kind of real love. I’ve had E/D for years and nothing has helped. Were in our 60′s and physical probems get worse. We both take depression meds and other meds for blood pressure, cholesterol and etc. Every body says they can fix a sexless marriage but thats not true, for us its been to long and even if we could there wouldn’t be enough time. So we stay out of each others way, I’ve become really quiet, I let my wife talk and I respond with a grunt, or yes or no. She don’t want to listen to me.
August 10th, 2010 at 12:40 am
admin

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Thanks for commenting, Nat. Your situation is pretty common for many. I’m curious to know if you’re really having E/D issues or if it’s rather a loss of libido. There are 3 main sexual dysfunctions people suffer from. Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, and Loss of Libido. Many times, people generalize and think they are all E/D related. Thanks Viagra for making people think you cure everything.

My hunch, based on your comments, is that you may actually suffer from Loss of Libido, or maybe Loss of Libido and E/D. If it truly is Loss of Libido, it needs to be treated differently than E/D. And your wife could also be suffering from Loss of Libido, and she may need to be treated as well.

Depression meds can certainly have an impact on Libido. I recommend seeing your doctor and asking if libido could be your issue, and perhaps your doctor can suggest something to bring back the libido and ramp up the passion in your bedroom!
December 21st, 2011 at 11:31 am