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3 Ways To Please Your Man In Bed

admin — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 21:28:51 +0000

We do many surveys here at AdviseCouples.com, and something that seems to be common is that women are unsure of how to please their man in bed, and men tell us that they wish their woman could satisfy them.

This was pretty alarming to us, so we figured we get to the bottom of this, and come up with 3 ways to to please your man in bed.

At the end of this article, leave a comment and let us know what you think. What would you add?

TEASE YOUR MAN

Just like a woman, men want to be teased. They want to build up to the climax through kissing, touching, licking, caressing and foreplay.

Tell your man how they make you feel, what you want to do to them, what you want them to do to you. Sometimes you have to be the dominate one in the bedroom. Sometimes you have to tell him what to do.

But switch it up. Sometimes you have to be submissive and let him have your way with you. Tell him what you want done to you and have him surprise you.

All of these kinds of talks are very hot and sexy, and build anticipation. And if you have them at random times, not just in the bedroom, it becomes a big tease and a HUGE turn on!

STRIP FOR YOU MAN

I haven’t met a man yet that doesn’t like a woman to strip for him. It’s why men go the strip clubs. It’s the thought and anticipation of what’s going to happen next.

Some woman are afraid to strip because they feel silly. Some think they aren’t attractive enough.

Put an end to all that talk! STRIP!

Your man will love you for it! He thinks you’re plenty attractive, which is why he’s with you. Give him the fantasy of being at a strip club while at home.

Learn how to do it. Rub him, grind him, and when he tries to touch you, move his hand away and tell him “no touching”. He will get totally turned on, and you will have some GREAT sex!

GIVE HIM THE BEST HAND JOB!

I know what you’re thinking; no man wants a hand job, right? WRONG!

And this is perfect for those women who HATE giving head!

Many women who hate giving head make it such an awkward and uncomfortable experience for a man that he doesn’t even want them to go down on him.

But a hand job is different. If you learn the art of it!

Men think hand jobs feel great, especially when it’s your hand, not theirs! They get an incredible visual experience out of it. They watch your hand gliding up and down there “best friend”, watch your face as you get into it, and you get to watch them enjoy what you’re doing to them.

There are several tips and techniques you can use to give your man the most incredible hand job of his life. The kind of hand job that will have him doing whatever it takes to do ANYTHING to please you in return. And whatever it takes to keep you by his side.

If you want to learn more about giving mind blowing hand jobs, then Oprah Expert Michael Webb is where you need to turn. He’s written a “how to” guide for Hand Job Help.

Just click the link below or the image in this article to learn the best techniques for giving the most unforgettable hand jobs ever! And say good bye to giving head!

Hand Job Help

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Understanding Low Sexual Drive

admin — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 13:10:56 +0000

Even though males don’t want to discuss it openly, neither do their mates, long-term couples commonly report a decline in their sexual desire. The loss of libido is more related to marriage than any other sexual dysfunctions. It is in the culture that women are habitually the ones who lose interest, with only about 15% of men losing interest in sex. In any case, this crisis has both dulling effects on either companion for reasons which aren’t exclusively attributed with old age.
This loss of libido can be very bothersome. It makes couples unhappy the rest of their lives as married individuals. Only 46% of women are still happy about life in general even losing sexual interest while there are roughly around 23% happy men. We need to simplify that loss of libido isn’t something to tolerate and live with. As partners, there is so much you can do together to revive that drive, save your marriage, and be happy in life.

Understanding the Signs
Loss of interest in sex does not happen in an instant. It’s a slow and steady process. There is loss of libido if a partner becomes uninterested in sex for some months of the preceding year.
It is also important for couples to know that the frequency of sexual encounters between them is not the best determinant of sexual interest. This is true especially when there are so many conditions that may impede the way of a sexual activity even if the libido is present.
To help you with, we have identified some warning signs that might be present in your relationship. Identification is a crucial step for you to be able to wrestle with these concerns before they become established.

a.   Physical contact occurs only in bedroom, usually at bedtime.
b.   Sex doesn’t give you a sense of connection and mutual sharing.
c.   One partner is always the starter while the other is just pressured
d.   You are not excited with sex
e.   Sex becomes mechanical and monotonous.
f.   You do not think of your wife in your sexual fantasies.
g.   Sex is only once a month.

If you have noticed most of these warning signs in your relationship, the loss of libido is imminent.

Regaining what was lost
When the loss of libido becomes a challenge as husband and wife, it is good for both partners to get down to it. A conversation would be a good medium for the couple to explore what went wrong. One needs to ask the other if there are things he/she can be of help, of what has changed from day 1 up to the present , or if he/she gets her needs, if work becomes demanding lately or if impotence is a problem. Discuss possible causes of loss of libido in an accommodating and warm manner. In this way, the neglected feeling won’t arise, and so with insecurities.

Get physical
Motion is important. Engage in a sport or go walking with your partner. If these become mechanical and routine, then contest yourself to go a little further, with this, both partners gain a sense of achievement and new vitality. This physical confidence might then be carried over into confidence during sex.

Expect less and be happy
Bringing down expectations to a more realistic one may take the pressure off. Sex does not have to be perfect always. It can be mutually satisfying, or the other way around. When it ‘s not working, the couple can experiment next time without feeling guilty and anxious.Similar Posts:

Secret Orgasm Tips: How To Give A Woman Multiple Orgasms

admin — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 05:58:50 +0000

For many men, it is a struggle to give a woman an orgasm. It becomes a great challenge, and the harder they try, the less successful they become. The truth is, you can give a woman multiple orgasms if you just learn a few simple techniques. To many, these are secret orgasm tips.

Female sexuality can be complicated to most men. Men simply just don’t know enough about the female anatomy to fully grasp what it takes to give her an orgasm. It’s not necessarily the fault of the man for not knowing, but it is his fault for not taking the time to learn.

Secret Orgasm Tips

Many men believe that the reason they can’t give a woman an orgasm is because their penis is too small, they ejaculate too soon, they aren’t good looking enough, or they don’t have enough money. These are all far from reality.

Having great sex has nothing to do with looks, money, size, or length of time. It has to do with pleasing your woman by giving her mind-blowing, knee-buckling, out of this world sexual experiences resulting in multiple, intense orgasms.

When you can give women these frequent, multiple orgasms, you’ll have them eating out of your hand and begging for more. So just how do you learn how to master the art of the female orgasm?

Start by understanding a few things and taking a couple notes.

Understand that woman can achieve orgasm many different ways. They can achieve orgasm by stimulating the vaginal area with your fingers. This can be extremely pleasing to many. You can also give a woman an orgasm by giving her oral sex. This is an art you must learn!

And the most intense orgasm a woman can have is a G Spot orgasm. Men, learn where her G Spot is and learn how to hit it. Because when you do, you’ll have her craving sex all the time!

For women, sex is more than just stimulating the clitoris. Foreplay can begin early in the day by you doing some of the daily tasks that she’s normally responsible. Showing her you care can get her in the mood, so make sure you’re showing her how much you love her, and not just telling her.

After you learn how to find her G-Spot, you’ll be having sex more often. She will become more adventurous and start to enact new fantasies. You’ll be enjoying every minute of it, and you’ll forget about penis size, premature ejaculation, or how much money you have.

And she’ll be telling all her friends what a great lover you are!

If you want to learn more Secret Orgasm Tips, then I highly suggest you click the link below!

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“O, O, O! Discovering that Perfect Orgasm!”

admin — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 10:30:44 +0000

Ladies, close your eyes and picture this….The lights are out, soft candle light flickers on the walls, and you and your partner are steaming up the windows of your bedroom. As he brings you closer and closer to the point of no return, suddenly you have the urge to urinate. The moment is ruined and once again, no orgasm. Little did you know, you were about toexperience an orgasm known as the g-spot orgasm.

As you leave the room to use the bathroom, suddenly the urge is gone. This night has been great, you are thinking. Your partner is frustrated, you are frustrated, and you still did not have that wonderful orgasm that you dream about. The problem may be you are not having that wonderful orgasm because you do not know HOW to have that orgasm. Many women are not aware of this, but there are actually 3 different types of orgasm that can be achieved through touching, and oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse. The three types of orgasms are clitoral, g-spot, and a combination of both.

The first type of orgasm is probably the easiest to achieve. This is the clitoral orgasm. This is the most common of the three. A clitoral orgasm is achieved by stimulation to the clitoral area. This can include touching, rubbing and licking. It can also be reached by using a toy known as a “Silver Bullet.” A silver bullet is a clitoral vibrator that provides extra clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse or self-pleasuring. For women who have a problem reaching orgasm from intercourse alone, this gives that extra stimulation needed. Other types of bullets include: the Seventh Heaven, the Micro-Bullet, and the Waterproof Power Bullet.

A g-spot orgasm is harder to achieve. One main reason for this is due to the fact that many women do not know where their g-spot is located. A g-spot is located on the inner front wall of the vagina. A simple way to find a g-spot is for the woman to stand with her legs apart and insert a finger inside the vagina using a “come here” motion. The g-spot is located about two inches inside. The outer surface feels like the outside of a walnut shell. When it is aroused, it swells up. By applying pressure to the g-spot, an orgasm can be achieved. Your partner can also experiment with this. When laying down, have your partner insert a finger and perform the same come here motion. You can vary the speed and pressure to find what works for you. When you have that urge to urinate, (like mentioned earlier), fight past that urge. This is actually your g-spot being stimulated. You will not urinate. It is impossible to urinate while the g-spot is aroused. Once you discover how to have a g-spot orgasm, you will wonder what took you so long to read this information! Some toys to experiment with g-spot pleasure are the Wireless Thumbs Up, G-Wiz, and my personal favorite, Cowboy Up. These are all vibrators aimed specifically at the g-spot to help with arousal. They all have clitoral stimulators as well.

The final type of orgasm to have is a dual action orgasm, or combination of both. This can happen with foreplay or intercourse. It occurs when both the clitoral region and g-spot are stimulated at the same time. Both partners can do this manually or orally. Toys can also be used to achieve this type of orgasm. Toys recommended for this are Daddy From the Nati, the Honey Dipper, Bling Bling, and T.O.M. These toys contain different sized shafts, along with ball bearings, and several different speeds and clitoral stimulators.

Whenever participating in a sexual act, always remember a lubricant should be used and a toy cleaner for proper care of your toy. Both participants should be comfortable with whatever act is being performed and it is always important to keep open communication. Good luck on your quest for achieving the big “O”!

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