All the necessary things are taken care of and you can relax with a beer and TV
remote in your hand. Or, better yet, stop by the mens club (or local bar) and swap
stories with the guys. Do not call the wife. She is too busy to talk anyway while
taking care of the kids and getting dinner ready. Everything is fine and as it
should be.

If you are a husband and this sounds familiar, you might want to take stock of how
your marriage is doing. Since when are you following this routine? Is this how it
was from day one of your marriage or did you gradually slip into this scenario and
it felt so good you did not want to change.

Yeah, the wife complained once in a while, but what wife did not? You may have been
there physically for the little woman but emotionally you were somewhere else. The
base for a good marriage is both the partners give due respect to each others
feelings.

Maybe it is time to reinvent your marriage and make it a union with shared happiness
and responsibilities. Give some time to your wife and ask her if she is happy and
what she wants from you. Do not talk to your wife but talk with her. Communication
is a two way conversation with each listening to the others points of view.

Commit to making yours a better marriage and it may be the best thing you have ever
done. The guys do not even have to know but it may show in your new attitude about
life and love. It is not a sissy thing to do. As a matter of fact, you may feel more
macho than you have felt in a long time.

Start with remembering those unforgettable days. Keep a list of the important dates
like birthdays and anniversaries. Cherish your memories, remember those sentimental
moments you have shared together. Do something special on that day. You can send a
card or write a poetry for her. You can take her to a romantic candle light dinner
or can cook a meal for her.

Try to do dinner together and express your love towards her.Alcohol is not
necessary. It is the care that matters. Tell at least one thing you love about her.
It is not necessary that you toast your wife on special occasions only.

Spice up your relationship again. Break up your routine and be more spontaneous. Do
something really special for your wife everyday, or at least often. Compliment her
and do it sincerely. Take photos of your times together and surprise her with an
album of memories later.

The secret to a happy marriage lies in learning to value your wife needs and desires
as much as you do your own. She is the one you picked to share your life with. It is
largely up to you to make it enjoyable and worthwhile.

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