For some reason, guys always think they aren’t getting enough sex.  It doesn’t matter if they are single or in a relationship, it seems they want more and more sex.  They crave it.  They think about it all day long.  It’s like their animal instinct takes over, and they want it all the time.

For women, it seems different.  It’s not that they don’t want sex, because they do.  They just seem to appreciate the intimacy of making love rather than the wham bam thank you mam variety.

Women actually crave sex as much as men.

Here is the secret to more sex…..

If you’re a man, learn to respect and appreciate your woman.  Do the little things for her to make her life easier.  Don’t do things because you expect o get laid.  Do them because you love your woman.

If you can dedicate some time to showing you love her, she will be attacking you for sex every chance she gets.  You will learn to appreciate her more and more, and she will appreciate the things you do.

The thing is, many woman are tired from everyday life.  It’s not like it used to be, where they stay home while the man works.  Today, they care for the home, the husband, the children, and they hold a job.  That’s a lot for anyone to handle, so cut them some slack when they say they’re too tired for sex.

Back to the main question, how much sex is enough?

Honestly, for me, it’s never enough.  There is no real answer.  I love having sex with my significant other all the time.  I love it when she surprises me and just takes me over.  I love getting random blow jobs.  I love sex in the shower.  I love spontaneous outdoor sex.

I love surprising her when she gets home from work and just taking her over.  Of course, she loves all these things too.

I’d hate to put a number on how much sex is enough.  When you truly love someone, there is no number.  You share you feelings with one another and sex is never a pre-thought.  It is a responsive action brought on by your emotion.

I feel sorry for those of you who only get laid on a monthly schedule.  Planned sex is the worst, but I hear it all the time about how “we only have sex once a month”, or “we only make love on Thursdays”.

How do you “make love on Thursdays”?  If it is already planned, how much feeling and emotion is involved.  This is not making love, this is a scheduled routine.  Break this habit immediately!

I will say there are times we go days without having sex or making love.  But it is never really a thought.  Because when we do, we are both very passionate about each other and it is amazing!

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I could sit here and write about going down and how much I like giving and getting, but I want to know what you think, because everyone’s opinion is so different.

Now, I’m a guy, and I want to receive oral sex all the time.  I like surprise BJ’s, road head, and the regular foreplay blow job.  I’ll be honest about something too.  As much as I love going down on a woman, there are plenty of times I’m just selfish and want to receive, and be done.

Who else feels like this?   Do you ever wish your partner would just please you orally and be content with that?  Ladies????

So what is enough?  I don’t think daily is realistic.  But for crying out loud, at least once a week!

And let’s direct this question to the ladies.  Do you really like giving?  Why does it seem that once we get into that committed relationship, you seem like you don’t want to give anymore?  What changed?  Is it something your guy does that turns you off?  Is it because he expects it now?

Let’s get some reader feedback on this.  Leave a comment in the form below and share your thoughts on oral sex.  Do you like to give? Receive? Both?  How much is enough?  How often do you want it versus how often do you get it?

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