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Hot French Kiss – How To Give One

admin — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:49:58 +0000

Have you ever seen actors and actresses exchange a steamy and hot French kiss on the
big screen? Not only can you see these people exchange passion, the actors portray
characters with a burning compassion for one another. Having one of these sensual
French kisses is possible in real life for average people, as well.

There are many little steps you can take to turn your regular French kiss into
something amazing. Do not forget or neglect the basics. Just as with any type of
kissing, you need to keep your eyes shut and your head tilted. Failing to do either
of these things will result in distractions or awkwardness. In addition, if you keep
your eyes shut, both you and your partner can really focus and feel the emotions
that are coming from your kissing experience.

In addition, if you are a man, you should take the extra time it takes to shave very
well. Not only does it hurt a woman when you kiss her with stubble, but also it
distracts her from feeling what the kiss has to offer. Therefore, special care
should be taken when you shave. Imagine having something scratch your sensitive,
delicate face repeatedly. It would not feel good in any way.

A great tip for women is also taking the time to get ready. Perhaps straighten or
curl your hair if you do not normally. Also, you should pick out an outfit that
flatters your body and looks great on you and makes you feel good. If you feel good
about yourself, these feelings will project on the quality of your kisses. Although
it may take a few more minutes, doing these things, like your make-up and your hair,
are well worth the time.

A big component that people tend to forget is keeping the relaxation level high. Not
only does this add comfort to both you and your partner, the two of you will be able
to focus more on how the kisses are making you feel. Try holding your girl in your
arms, or try kissing on a big, comfy couch or bed. Just kiss anywhere that will not
strain your neck, back, arms, or legs.

A hot French kiss means that there is an overabundance of attraction. In order to
create this strong sense of attraction, you can use fragrances. Modern science and
studies over the years have proved that scent plays an important role in attraction.
Therefore, you should wear a great smelling perfume or cologne. But just as always,
do not overdo it by spraying too much. If you do so, then you will have your partner
coughing from it, rather than being attracted to it.

Experimenting is a great way to find that sweet spot. Do not be ashamed or
embarrassed because this is the only way you will find what you and your partner
love. Try placing and rubbing your tongue on the roof of your partner’s mouth, and
see what that feels like. Just keep trying different things, and remember what that
makes you feel like emotionally and physically.

John Hubert recommends you check out Lauren Worthington, a french kissing specialist
who maintains a site over at http://frenchkissingsecrets.com/Similar Posts:

Working Dads Reconnect with Babies Through Massage

admin — Fri, 08 May 2009 12:52:24 +0000

In today’s world economy we often find that most parents
are working outside of the home. This may mean a two
parent home has both parents working outside of the home to
keep their bills paid and food on the table. This may also
mean that we see a reversal of roles, as compared to our
1950s ideals of families, where a father may stay at home
with the children while the mother works outside of the
home. In any case, we find that the children are missing
out on valuable nurturing and bonding time with their
parents.

While it is essential that parents work to support their
families, it is also essential that parents find ways to
connect and bond with their children. To support children,
show them they are loved and provide attention and care.
Yes, when you come home from work in the evening, exhausted
or in a bad mood because of that nasty co-worker, this may
seem like one more thing to do that you just can’t find the
time for. But, it is imperative that you spend time with
children, even if it means that you have to skip washing
the dishes or folding the laundry. Those things can wait,
children cannot.

So, what do you do to spend this essential time with your
children? Well, if you have a baby or very young child,
infant massage can be the perfect nurturing and bonding
activity. This massage can be a quite time, stand-alone
activity or can even be done while you are providing the
essential care you would be anyway. Such as giving a bath
and changing a diaper. During these times take a few extra
moments to make eye contact, speak lovingly with your
baby, and provide nurturing strokes starting on her legs
and arms. Maybe just before or at bedtime, provide some
long soothing strokes down her back. Not only will the
massage help you both to connect, it will also help you
both to relax due to the increase of Oxytocin (relaxing and
nurturing hormone) in both yourself and your baby.

If you have an older child, a toddler or school age child,
try reading a story together. During the story you can use
your hands to characters or pictures on his back. Allow
your child to help make up the story so that he can
participate in suggesting the types of nurturing touch he
may wish to feel. This simple activity can take just
minutes or you may find it spreads out across a greater
portion of the evening. In any case, together you’ll spend
valuable time and share in very special moments that cannot
be replaced.

Children need nurturing touch to thrive in all aspects of
life, socially, academically and cognitively. Without an
appropriate amount of nurturing touch in their daily lives
children suffer horrible consequences, feelings of
inadequacy, self-doubt, lack of confidence and social
skills. Find a few moments each evening to reconnect with
your children through massage and nurturing touch.
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Looking for expert advice, tips and tools to help improve
your child’s health? Find answers to all your questions
about infant massage teacher training, massage for children
and pediatric massage therapy at http://www.liddlekidz.com
. Infant Massage Teacher Trainer, Tina Allen, founder of
leading children’s health and nurturing touch organization
Liddle Kidz Foundation, shares over ten years of expertise
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The Next Move After Sex

admin — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:21:39 +0000

So you just had sex, made love, or plain hooked up with someone. The next move can be really awkward, especially if it’s your first time hooking up. Most of the time, men and women don’t know what to say after a round in the sack. So what’s the next move after sex?

Experts can tell you different things, but in reality, each person is different. What you don’t want to do is bruise each other’s ego by talking about how bad it was, and you certainly don’t want to make someone feel cheap by just leaving.

Men and women certainly react defiantly, and since I’m a man, I write from our perspective. If you’re a woman and would like to share your thoughts, leave a comment in the form below.

More than anything, a man wants to be complimented, even if we know we did good because your legs are still quivering. We want reassurance that we pleased you. It really completes the act for us. The more specific you can get, great…It will be better for both of us. For instance, tell me how you like the way I swirled my tongue. Not only does it give me a great ego boost, but I’ll satisfy you that way next time, too!

Another thing you can do is hydrate me. We just had one hell of a workout, and I’m thirsty. Usually I’m the one that gets up and gets some water for both of us, but I’ll never forgot first chick who brought me a glass of water. It was awesome. It gave me the chance to relax and enjoy. I knew she appreciated my efforts.

Another thing that drives me wild after great sex is when you get up out of bed. It gives me another chance to eye your sexy body. The visual of your curves as you bend over, pick up the t-shirt you just ripped off of me, and let it slide down your sexy body. It covers just enough to make me want you again!

If this relationship is sort of new, we also want to make sure you’re leaving. I’m not trying to sound mean, but after having sex with a girl in a new relationship, men get afraid that you’re ready to get married. We really just want to enjoy the sex, re-live it, and do it again. Honestly, what is better than the first 6 months of a relationship when you’re going at it every day!

We don’t want you moving your stuff in, forcing us into lifetime commitments. I’m not saying you have to leave right away. In fact, that would suck. I’m just saying there is nothing that puts my mind at ease like knowing that you are going to leave, eventually.

So many times chicks just want to hang around. We feel pressure to try and satisfy you when really we just want to know that you are going home at some point. Having sex doesn’t always mean we’re ready for something serious.

Now, obviously our post sex desires will change when the relationship has lasted a little longer. In that case, even men feel a sense of intimacy, and we really do want you to be there with us. Lying naked next to each other is a great way to wrap up a wild romp with your lover.

But no matter what, keep complimenting us! You don’t have to exaggerate, because that will just make us feel insecure. But tell us what we did good. I don’t think I’m alone on this, but share your thoughts. What’s the next move after sex?<–>Similar Posts:

Dating Tips For Men – Sit Like A Procurer

admin — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 22:29:56 +0000

Don’t you feel anxious towards a girl even just talking
with her on the phone? If not entirely, there could be
times when you get into an awkward topic, or that you may
feel tensed or pressured in a certain moment. Some girls
tend to be really dominant especially in a conversation,
and this is just on the phone. That’s why some guys would
get intimidated by them.

So this time I’m going to give you one of the most simple
dating tips that will instantly pump up your phone game…

This technique is called: ‘Sit Like A Procurer’

Yeah, you read right, but bear with me for a minute.

Just before you call a lady you may be interested in (or
perhaps she’s calling you), it is extremely helpful to sit
down, and get into a comfortable ‘Procurer-like’ physical
position. If you are not sure what that looks like go
watch ‘Hustle n’ Flow’ or turn on BET.

The key to finding your own personal inner Procurer is one
thing:

Comfort. Physical comfort is your gauge. If you like to
sit in the couch with your legs crossed, then go ahead. I
personally like to lean back, stretch my legs out, and take
up as much space as I want.

If you have a plush couch or comfy chair (or anything
really) go ahead and give this technique a try RIGHT NOW.
Maybe grab a rocks glass and try it with a drink in your
hand if it helps. Practice it until you’ve got it.

Phase 2: Now call a girl you’ve been interested in, but
make sure you are ‘Sittin’ like a Procurer.’ Stay in
position throughout the phone call and notice if and when
you begin to reflexively change into a less comfortable
position.

What you will probably find in this dating advice is that
this new ‘Procurer-like’ physical position is going to
accomplish two things:

A) It will automatically put you into a more dominant and
relaxed frame. This will give you a clearer mind that will
make you think of some appropriate conversational skills to
use towards her.

B) It will help to relieve any excess anxiety you may be
experiencing over calling her.

Remember: If you are really physically relaxed, it is a lot
harder to experience emotional distress.

WARNING: Do not take this too far! The exercise is ‘Sit
like a Procurer’ NOT ‘Smack her in the face if she don’t
got my loot!’
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Signs of Emotional Abuse – 3 Tell-Tale Signs of Emotional Abuse

admin — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 12:19:37 +0000

How do you know if this is emotional abuse? How do you know
if you are being abused emotionally? You know from the
inside out.

Look closely at these three tell-tale signs of emotional
abuse and let your awareness of your inner experience,
relative to each, permeate your entire being.

1) Being Called to the Carpet

Emotional abusers have a very unique way of calling out
their disappointments. They do it by calling you to the
carpet, where you crawl with your tail between you legs and
your stomach in a knot.

Your mind is all consumed in how you are going to appease
and please them that you may not even have time to address
their expressed concerns. All you know is: it’s time to
make this one go away, if you can. Most likely, you can’t.

2) The Absence of “Emotional Safety”

Your sense of emotional safety is simply not alive relative
to this person. You feel guarded, maybe even awkward at
times, certainly not fluid by any stretch.

This is in complete contrast to how you experience yourself
when you’re aware of your sense of “emotional safety.” I’ve
coined this term to connote a very specific emotional ease
and security that is clearly absent in abusive
relationships, as well as in encounters with bullies and
control freaks. (The latter term is not a clinical term.)

3) The Boa Constrictor Inner Strangulation

This is the biggest tell-tale sign of emotional abuse. You
know this ONLY from the inside out. Here’s what it feels
like: a boa constrictor is wrapped around the entire length
of your spine. And with each passing moment, you experience
your in breath constrict and your out breath almost
non-existent.

Need I say any more. When you encounter the boa
constrictor, you are not yourself for crying out loud. You
may cut off from your very essence, simply to stay alive.

Now I know if you know emotional abuse or have had the
occasion to frequent with a control freak, then you can
relate to this inner world as I have painted in these very
words. If my picture is utterly foreign, count your
blessings as you have not encountered the signs of
emotional abuse.

If, on the other hand, this article is resonating and you
are keenly aware of that inner experience of: a) being
called to the carpet; b) the absence of “emotional safety”
and c) the boa constrictor inner strangulation, then you
are lucky because you know the signs of emotional abuse.
And you can now avoid becoming a part of the abuse dynamic.
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For more information on the signs of emotional abuse, I
invite you to check out Emotional Verbal Abuse: How to
Recognize, Cope and Heal. Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. helps
people recognize, end and heal from verbal emotional abuse.

http://www.preventabusiverelationships.com/emotional_verbal_

abuse.php Copyright 2009 Jeanne King, Ph.D. – Domestic
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