Female sexuality can be complicated to most men.  Men simply just don’t know enough about the female anatomy to fully grasp what it takes to give her an orgasm. It’s not necessarily the fault of the man for not knowing, but it is his fault for not taking the time to learn.

Secret Orgasm Tips

Many men believe that the reason they can’t give a woman an orgasm is because their penis is too small, they ejaculate too soon, they aren’t good looking enough, or they don’t have enough money.  These are all far from reality.

Having great sex has nothing to do with looks, money, size, or length of time.  It has to do with pleasing your woman by giving her mind-blowing, knee-buckling, out of this world sexual experiences resulting in multiple, intense orgasms.

When you can give women these frequent, multiple orgasms, you’ll have them eating out of your hand and begging for more. So just how do you learn how to master the art of the female orgasm?

Start by understanding a few things and taking a couple notes.

Understand that woman can achieve orgasm many different ways.  They can achieve orgasm by stimulating the vaginal area with your fingers.  This can be extremely pleasing to many.  You can also give a woman an orgasm by giving her oral sex.  This is an art you must learn!

And the most intense orgasm a woman can have is a G Spot orgasm.  Men, learn where her G Spot is and learn how to hit it.  Because when you do, you’ll have her craving sex all the time!

For women, sex is more than just stimulating the clitoris.  Foreplay can begin early in the day by you doing some of the daily tasks that she’s normally responsible.  Showing her you care can get her in the mood, so make sure you’re showing her how much you love her, and not just telling her.

After you learn how to find her G-Spot, you’ll be having sex more often.  She will become more adventurous and start to enact new fantasies.  You’ll be enjoying every minute of it, and you’ll forget about penis size, premature ejaculation, or how much money you have.

And she’ll be telling all her friends what a great lover you are!

If you want to learn more Secret Orgasm Tips, then I highly suggest you click the link below!

Secret Orgasm Tips

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Before we go too far, let’s talk about the 2 reasons men keep secrets from their significant other:

1. They wish their partner would understand them, but they are afraid they won’t.
2. They are simply trying to get away with something they know is wrong.

Obviously, the second reason is more of a concern.  If he’s hiding minor things, there is no need for alarm.  He’s probably just not sure how you’ll react. Let’s get into the secret minds of men.

The Number Of Women He’s Had  Sex With:

Look, men just aren’t sure how to handle this, so they will typically exaggerate, but depending on the man, the number can be higher or lower.  Some men lie high, hoping you’ll see them as sexually experienced.  Other men lie low, so you won’t see them as the player they really are.

Don’t sweat this dirty little secret.  It’s not that serious.  Personally, I’ve never understood why anyone would want to know this.  If you are one that really needs to know, leave a comment below and tell me why.  I’d love to understand why it’s important to you.

Does He Compare You To His Last Girlfriend:

The answer is, absolutely, YES!!  He can’t help it.  Everything you do, you’re being measured.  Lucky for you, he’s not with her anymore.  He’s with you.  All he really wants is someone he enjoys being around, someone who gets along with his friends, and ultimately, some one he can trust and be happy with.

Even if he’s comparing you to her, eventually he’s gonna realize that she’s gone for a reason.  That reason, is YOU!!  You’re the one he wants to be with, and you’re the one that makes him happy.  There, no need to fret about that.

He Still Masturbates

Some people are afraid to discuss this one, but let’s face it.  Masturbation is natural, and NORMAL!  Relax.  It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to be with you.  In fact, in a study conducted byWomens Health, 20% of men admitted to masturbating daily, and 33% confessed to masturbating 3 times per week!

Now who’s normal?  The only time you need to worry, is if he is choosing himself over you, or if he can’t reach climax with you.

He Worries If He Can Stay Faithful

Worry indeed.  You too!  But listen…it’s not  because he doesn’t want to be with you.  It’s because all his life he hears about how sex stops when you get married.  He hears it from friends, family, TV, and even movies depict that sex wanes once the vows are delivered.  That’s what he’s afraid of.

Don’t give him a chance to worry.  Keep a healthy sexual lifestyle, and you will end his fear.  If he is usually the one who initiates sex, then you try to rev things up for a change.  Also, don’t underestimate the power of having spontaneous sex in new places.  You’ll drive him wild and keep him from thinking about moving elsewhere for action.

Men Want Sex Twice As Much As They Get It

It’s not a bad thing.  Sex is natural.  And, according to many relationship experts, a healthy sex life is important to the success and happiness of any relationship.  So if he’s getting it twice a week, he probably wants it four times.

One big thing to keep in mind is how you reject your partner.  Let’s face it, you’re not always going to want it.  But be careful how you reject it.  It can devestate the ego.  Don’t just say no and roll over.  Let him know why.  But make it up to him by initiating it when you are ready.  It’s a big turn on for anyone, and a HUGE ego boost for every man I know.

Men have crazy, wierd thoughts.  And most of the time, they’re just afraid of you’re reaction.  If he’s not asking for sex, he wants it.  If he’s masturbating, he still wants you.  No need to worry.

Do you ever wonder what men are thinking?

What’s on your mind?  Let us know what you think.  Leave a comment at AdviseCouples.com and start sharing your thoughts.  We’re happy to discuss what you want.  You can even comment on what others have to say.  Just when you think something isn’t normal, you find out how normal you really are.Similar Posts:

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What I find terribly disturbing is how common sexless relationships have become.  Regardless of whether or not you are early on in a relationship, or if you are married, your relationship shouldn’t suddenly become sexless.  It’s really prompted me to dig and figure out why couples stop having sex.

It’s no surprise that the number one reason couples stop having sex has to do with communication.  In many cases, couples are afraid to express their feelings about sex.  If you can’t share your thoughts about sex with your partner, who can you share them with?  Why has it become uncomfortable?

You should definitely share your likes and dislikes with your partner.  You should be able to share fantasy with them.  And you should feel comfortable telling them how to please you.  You know your body better than anyone else.  Don’t hold back.  Don’t wait until you’re with your friends and tell them how bad the sex has gotten.  The only way to make it better is to share your thoughts and feelings with your partner.

Another reason couples stop having sex is because of performance issues.  I hear too often from couples, men and women, who just don’t understand the sexual cycles of men and women.  If you don’t understand the sexual cycles, it’s impossible to understand the orgasm.

These are the men who think they don’t last long enough in bed and can’t satisfy their woman, and the women who pressure them to help the woman achieve orgasm. No doubt, both couples should reach orgasm, but it isn’t always going to happen at the same time.

The Sexual Cycles

For Men, the sexual cycle has 5 stages.

1. Arousal
2. Plateau
3. Climax
4. Arousal
5. Nothing

For Women, the sexual cycle has 6 stages.

1. Arousal
2. Plateau
3. Climax
4. Plateau
5. Arousal
6. Deep Content

This extra step is huge!  And to make things even more complicated, the time in each stage varies between men and women.  For instance, it takes the average man about 7 minutes to reach orgasm, and women take about 10 minutes to reach their first plateau of sexual stimulation and an additional 5 minutes to climax.

Simple math tells us that a man must hold his climax for 10 minutes in order for the woman to reach orgasm.  If you’re falling within these times, you’re ok.  Don’t complicate things by making sex what it never should be, a performance.

If this is affecting your sex life and ruining your relationship, it takes extra measures to satisfy your partner.  If you are falling short of these average times, you may be suffering from premature ejaculation.  You can get help with this, and you don’t need medication to do it.  There are natural herbal supplements to help.  You can also download a free ebook by clicking the link Stop Premature Ejaculation.

If it’s not a sexual dysfunction, and you’re just not holding out long enough to please your partner, you may just have to work on other things, like extending foreplay, or helping your partner achieve orgasm manual after you reach your climax.  It can also help to know what it is your partner likes, where he or she likes to be touched, etc.  Again, it all goes back to sexual communication.

I order to please your partner, you really need to have a sexual understanding, and it all starts with talking.  You also really need to comprehend the sexual cycle of men and women to understand the orgasm.  You can end your sexless marriage by getting the help you deserve, and you’ve already started by landing on this page.Similar Posts:

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There is a direct connection between a healthy sex life and a healthy relationship.  It’s no secret.  If you and your partner are enjoying a great sex life, then you’re better off than most.  In fact, In a recent survey I conducted, 66% of respondents said that they are not sexually satisfied by their lover.  So you don’t have to let your relationship and your bedroom life suffer, I’m offering some healthy ways to put some passion back in your sex life.

Sex can become boring and monotonous at times, but you have to continue to add spice and intrigue to it.  People too often make sex a routine.  Follow some of the suggestions below and you’ll have your partner wanting you, craving you, and begging your for more sex!

1.       You’ve tried sex with the lights on, right?  How about sex with the blinds wide open!  This will add an element of excitement that people might see or hear you having sex.  It’s a mental turn on.

2.       Try being completely silent during sex.  A lot of times, we try so hard to say erotic things, it becomes less natural.  How about trying not to say a word.  You’ll be totally focused on the task at hand.

3.       Sex in public can add some excitement.  Not real public, but a quiet park, or in the car in a parking lot should do the trick.  There is an element of getting caught, but not too much that it will make you worry.

4.       Role play.  I don’t mean dress up as a nurse or a cop.  I mean, find something that will turn you both on.  Try pretending that one of you is a shy virgin, the other married and mature.  Have the mature person totally take advantage of the shy virgin.

5.       Lights, Camera, Action!  Try filming you and your partner having sex.  Make sure you both consent to this.  Don’t get tricky.  Knowing you’re on camera can be really hot, and it can get even steamier when you watch it together.

6.       Try pretending you don’t know each other.  Go to a bar, and have the woman get there about 30 minutes before the man.  Pretend like you don’t know each other.  Watch other guys hit on her. Both of you will get excited knowing that other people want her.  Then, you move in, pretending you don’t know her, make your best move, and take her home.

7.       Try spending a weekend at a hotel, with just the two of you.  No cell phones, no distractions.  Just an entire weekend of spending time with each other.  You’ll develop some real intimacy, and have some passionate sex.

8.       Look your partner in the eye.  A lot of times, during sex, we aren’t locked in on each other’s eyes. When you’re having sex, lock eyes, and hold it.  It will intensify her orgasm because she knows he is totally into her at that moment.

9.       Explore new territory.  When sex becomes a routine, we forget about all the other places on each other’s body.  Try exploring, by kissing, licking, and gently running your fingers over all of their body parts.  You’ll find out which one’s they like by their reactions.

10.   Relaxing Massage.  You’ll be surprised at how massaging your partners stress away will relax them and make you want to please you any way they can.

11.   Get a Grip!  When you’re having sex, right when you’re about to orgasm, grab each other tightly, like you’re not going to let go.  It’s amazing how a woman feels when you have  a strong hold of her as you climax.

12.   Have a make out session, PG-13 style.  Yeah, pretend you’re 16 again.  Make out with each other, kissing, touching, grabbing, for 1 full hour without going below the belt.  You’ll build up a lot of anticipation for what will come later.

This list could go on and on, and with your help, we can make it grow.  Try some of these out and start improving your sex life with your partner.  It will add romance, spice, excitement, and intimacy.  You can also take this short survey to contribute to what you like in bed.Similar Posts:

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It’s simpler than you think.  You don’t have to have a bigger penis, or last for hours at a time.  All you have to do is pay attention and make her feel like a queen.  Woman want to feel appreciated the same way we want to feel significant.

You know how you want to be told how good you were in the sack?  She wants to be told how gorgeous she is, and sexy and beautiful she is, and how she makes you feel.  So do it.  Follow these 4 tips and she’ll want more sex!

Slow It Down!

So many times, guys get really excited and just want to jump to intercourse, skipping foreplay.  You can’t do this.  You have to get her hot.  You have to show her that you want her.  It’s not enough to just tell her.  Skipping foreplay tells her you’re in a hurry, and you don’t really want to be with her.  Rub her body, caress her, and kiss her in places you haven’t kissed her before.  She feel sexy, relaxed, and want to please you any way she knows how

Boost Her Ego!

Just like you want an ego boost, so do women.  You know how you want her to tell her how big your penis is?  She wants you to tell her she’s not fat, that she looks fantastic, and that she turns you on.  She’s not gonna want to do doggie-style if she thinks her butt is big.  Tell her how sexy her butt is and you’re in!

Detailed Praise!

If she did something you like, and you want her to do it again, then you have to tell her what she did and how it made you feel.  Every woman wants to know that she made her man’s eye’s roll into the back of his head.  Not only will she be happy she made you feel this way, but she’ll want to do it again and again!  Yay for you!

Call Her Name!

Right in the middle of making love, look her straight in the eye and say her name.  She will feel intimately connected to you and want to return any favor she can.  Pet names are great, but they don’t have the same emotional connection when you’re having sex.  Think about when you’re having sex and right as she’s about to orgasm, she scream’s your name.  It makes you feel like a champ, right?  King of the world!  That’s how she’ll feel if you look her in the eye and say her name!

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