So what’s your answer?  Would you stay in a sexless marriage, or would you bolt for more abundant sexual pleasure.  You can share your comments in the form below.

Here is my advice.  If you love someone, than you should definitely stay in the marriage or relationship.  If you’re not having enough sex, then there’s a good chance that you’re just not creating enough intimacy with your significant other.

Sex should never be an expectation.  It shouldn’t be ‘earned’ either.  Men in particular make this mistake.  They often do things that is seemingly ‘out of the ordinary’ and expect sexual pleasure in return.  Think about this for  second……

You just made your wife feel like a HOOKER!

You think you did something good by cleaning the house, making dinner, and rubbing her shoulders.  These are all great things, but when you expect sex in return, they lessen the feelings your wife has and actually turns her off.

Try creating intimacy each day.  Tell your partner you love them, and tell them WHY!  Who doesn’t want to know why they’re loved, why they’re wanted, why they are the most important person in the world to you?  Do things to ease your lover’s burdens, for them, not for sex.

When you begin to show you care, your partner will feel it.  In many respects, showing you care is foreplay.  Foreplay doesn’t always start in the bedroom.  It starts by showing your partner you mean the world to them, no matter what.

Too often people get into relationships to receive.  They want to receive love.  They want to receive sex.  They want to receive attention.

Try getting involved to give.  Give all those things and you’ll be amazed and what you get in return!

So my advice, if you’re in a sexless marriage, is to stay in the marriage if you love your partner.  Stay, and figure out what YOU can GIVE.  When you can do that, you’ll finally GET what you really wanted.

So after reading my views, tell me what you think.  Leave a comment in the box below and let me know if you agree or disagree.  If you have a question you’d like addressed, let us know!Similar Posts:

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As you leave the room to use the bathroom, suddenly the urge is gone. This night has been great, you are thinking. Your partner is frustrated, you are frustrated, and you still did not have that wonderful orgasm that you dream about. The problem may be you are not having that wonderful orgasm because you do not know HOW to have that orgasm. Many women are not aware of this, but there are actually 3 different types of orgasm that can be achieved through touching, and oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse. The three types of orgasms are clitoral, g-spot, and a combination of both.

The first type of orgasm is probably the easiest to achieve. This is the clitoral orgasm. This is the most common of the three. A clitoral orgasm is achieved by stimulation to the clitoral area. This can include touching, rubbing and licking. It can also be reached by using a toy known as a “Silver Bullet.” A silver bullet is a clitoral vibrator that provides extra clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse or self-pleasuring. For women who have a problem reaching orgasm from intercourse alone, this gives that extra stimulation needed. Other types of bullets include: the Seventh Heaven, the Micro-Bullet, and the Waterproof Power Bullet.

A g-spot orgasm is harder to achieve. One main reason for this is due to the fact that many women do not know where their g-spot is located.  A g-spot is located on the inner front wall of the vagina. A simple way to find a g-spot is for the woman to stand with her legs apart and insert a finger inside the vagina using a “come here” motion. The g-spot is located about two inches inside. The outer surface feels like the outside of a walnut shell. When it is aroused, it swells up. By applying pressure to the g-spot, an orgasm can be achieved.  Your partner can also experiment with this. When laying down, have your partner insert a finger and perform the same come here motion. You can vary the speed and pressure to find what works for you. When you have that urge to urinate, (like mentioned earlier), fight past that urge. This is actually your g-spot being stimulated. You will not urinate. It is impossible to urinate while the g-spot is aroused. Once you discover how to have a g-spot orgasm, you will wonder what took you so long to read this information! Some toys to experiment with g-spot pleasure are the Wireless Thumbs Up, G-Wiz, and my personal favorite, Cowboy Up. These are all vibrators aimed specifically at the g-spot to help with arousal. They all have clitoral stimulators as well.

The final type of orgasm to have is a dual action orgasm, or combination of both. This can happen with foreplay or intercourse. It occurs when both the clitoral region and g-spot are stimulated at the same time. Both partners can do this manually or orally. Toys can also be used to achieve this type of orgasm. Toys recommended for this are Daddy From the Nati, the Honey Dipper, Bling Bling, and T.O.M.  These toys contain different sized shafts, along with ball bearings, and several different speeds and clitoral stimulators.

Whenever participating in a sexual act, always remember a lubricant should be used and a toy cleaner for proper care of your toy. Both participants should be comfortable with whatever act is being performed and it is always important to keep open communication. Good luck on your quest for achieving the big “O”!

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